I used to write a lot about parenting, often about the modern dad. He changed more diapers, dropped the kids at school more often, read more bedtime stories, and sometimes struggled to balance his expanding role at home with work, research showed.
Now, fresh studies indicate the trend is continuing. At home, the percentage of fathers, married to working mothers, “who routinely care for their children under age 15” rose to 32 percent from 26 percent in 2002, The Juggle reports today, using U.S. Census Bureau data.
This is the latest research to show that increasingly parenting is a more even split between mom and dad. Mom may still do more, but dad is catching up. For example, the amount of time fathers spend caring for their kids tripled over the last 40 years, according to research from the Council on Contemporary Families in 2008.
What does this mean for early education? Parents are their children’s first teachers. It follows that if dads are more involved in story time, parent-teacher conferences and other aspects of the daily job that is childrearing, their kids’ early education may be even better.
It is also dad’s day-to-day involvement, not the periodic father-daughter day, which pays bigger health and development dividends according to another Wall Street Journal story, “Are Dads the New Moms?”
"We're finding that it's not the outings or fishing trips but fathers' steady emotional connection that makes the most substantial difference to their children," says Mr. (Randal) Day (director of the Family Studies Center at Brigham Young University).
In many ways, today’s parents are a transitional group, hammering out new arrangements daily and weekly on everything from who will stay home when their child is sick to who will cook dinner.
Men now also deal with more work-family conflict than women, according to a 2009 report from the Families and Work Institute.
In other words, men are experiencing what women experienced when they first entered the workforce in record numbers—the pressure to “do it all in order to have it all.
-- “The New Male Mystique.” 2011.
The report and The Wall Street Journal stories are great places to start for preschool teachers, providers and, of course, parents to understand the changing families of students in early education classrooms.